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Sunday, December 29, 2019

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The exclusivity of heart shattering escapades of Nigerian men should be put aside for research purpose vis a vis their black american counterparts, for the sake of this thread, i still maintain no heartbreak should be considered bigger than the other just so to prove on NL that Nigerian men are monumental heart-breakers. but seriously ask Nigerian women who are married to nigerian men if the guys are this terrible as portrayed by western women, am also surprised these women who live in a society of 70% failure in civil partnership/marriage are on NL holding nigerian men up for accounting for less than 2% of these failures - i tink something is not right.
I am not here to defend our men, but to opine that western women should desist from holding only nigerian men for their misfortune and learn to look at the bigger picture, and one more thing, europe is been run on software making it possible for the women to sing same song, stand on same ground and reach same conclusion about nigerian men, is this another western plot to drag our image in the mud.
who is capable of committing more crime? nigerians aight?
who is capable of committing aggravated heart-break? nigerians aight?
who is capable of rape? nigerians aight?
wonder when nigerian men will be let off the radar
please OP start another thread harping on the good things our brodas have done and stop running us down like we are the worst creatures on this planet.
how about a german couple (married for decades) who picks up a nigerian guy at the club, only to get home asking the gentleman to make out with his wife while the husband watches. for heavens sake i feel the west has done more damage than any part morally, economically, socially and enviromentally.
if anyone finds nigerian men more callous and undeserving, try your own lot and when poo happens pls still come back to post on NL.
a western woman would cheat on a helpless immigrant, break up with him and still confirm with immigration if he has been deported and guess how they ask immi (i hope the idiot has been deported back to his god forsaken continent). i have spoken with several immigrants and a lot of dem have given various unpalatable accounts with some of their hopeless european women, and am so shocked at the clean moral cap some of these women wear to NL to make faceless and aimless generalizations about nigerian men, although OP sounds very responsible and one of the very few good eggs (yes i said it, one of very few).

My Experience With A Nigerian Man

December 29, 2019

Onos Elijah

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At 31 am still single gosh!!.. Not exactly the plan I had for myself, I needed a real man, I’m attracted to well built, muscly men who looks as though they could pick me up and throw me over their shoulders, I have been out with one or two who fits physically to my specifications but they always turn out to be total wimps and extremely lazy in the bedroom, always expecting me to do the work. I keep on asking myself where are the real men.. With my mother’s continuous bickering and peer pressure from friends it gets more difficult to see the light of the day, well I have always believed that is there is always light at the end of the tunnel, but I desperately needed that light.

It all started a few weeks ago on a friend’s birthday…Sam was there with his girlfriend, our eyes kept meeting occasionally, one thing led to another and we got introduced by the host of the party we chatted about work for some time and there was an instant connection between us, as he left to be at his girlfriend he handed me his business card. A week later, after much consideration I dropped an email. “hi Sam, Kenny here we met at Eric’s party last week forgot I had you business card with me, just going through my stuff and it popped out. Do you always carry your business card in a saunas” It was an obscure, flirty mail intending to see what he will do. Minutes later he replied, numbers were exchanged and we made dinner date, 6hours later we were sitting across from each other in cozy restaurant and he told me that he had thought about sneaking behind me at the party and to quote him, “tearing off my clothes and entering me “. Unfortunately he lived 30miles away so we made plans to meet the next day, we both booked half-days off at our place of work we had an unspoken arrangement that this was going to end in sex, I knew my mother will be horrified, I was so flattered and felt no guilt even if he was another woman’s man. We met and headed towards my flat, the attraction between us was incredible, it was mid August and it happened to be raining so we ended up sharing my umbrella, his hands was lightly touching my hips during the walk. The minute I closed the door to my apartment he grabbed me, his mouth on my neck then in my mouth his hands sliding down my back and up between my legs, frantically we flung off our clothes we made our way to the bedroom, he threw me to the bed I was only wearing a black lace bra that goes with my panties I had carefully chosen that morning I could already see his erection. Slowly he started to lick the inside of legs and went down inside my thighs his fingers pulling down the edge of my panties, its like his head exploded and he couldn’t get enough, I pleaded with him to get inside of me, finally he pulled his trousers down climbed on top of me and entered me with such a force that it almost took my breath away, we kept switching rocking back and forth, him flipping me over and thrusting so hard that we both came at almost same time, afterwards lying there both of us exhausted, my mind flipped back to his girlfriend thinking if he made love to her like this.. I asked if he felt guilty and he replied “No”.. he got up, dressed up, kisses me and headed for the door. I laid back on the bed head facing the celling thinking what the hell did I just do. He definitely must have felt something cause we didn’t stop after that one amazing electrifying experience we kept on meeting for two months and we never spoke about our personal lives, just two adults enjoying themselves with no strings attracted or so I thought .. One day during oral sex his phone rang it was her calling to say good night.. Guilt they say its like a snake that slowly creeps in. The guilt was too much for both of us and we agreed to stop. He stood up as usual got dressed said his goodbye when I blurted out “Sam am in love with you”, he stopped as if a gun was pointed at the back of his head slowly he turned and said “am sorry I can’t be with you”.